We are back yet again with an answer to a commonly asked question, “do girls like shy guys”?
There is one technical problem with this question and that is, when you are talking about the girls, you are talking about the half human race on this planet. Imagine the number of girls on this planet, they are different humans with different nature and thoughts. All of them will have a different taste in guys. So, we can’t say that all the girls dislike shy guys. We have seen a lot of girls interested in shy guys instead of those who are always in the spotlight.
Let’s get into the facts on why most of the girls like shy guys?
- Shy guys are always great listeners
Girls like to talk and spill the tea (I mean, who wouldn’t agree), they like a boy who listens to them, their stories, smiles to himself, does not interrupt their talking. Being a girl means living in a whirlpool of emotions and mood swings. At the end of the day, they need to let all the emotions out, and what will they need? A listener who not only listens but supports them too. So, if you are not a shy guy reading this article, maybe start listening to your girl and act a little shy because shy guys are winning this round.
- They are like a mystery
Do you like to solve a good riddle? The same case is with girls. They rarely like guys that are the life of parties. Shy guys with a little mysterious nature can intrigue girls. They know when to speak and when to listen. To be honest, it is human nature to try to know every detail. If a shy guy does not share more about himself, girls will like to explore more about his personality.
- Shy guys are humble
As they are not always trying to be the centre of attention at parties and events, they are humble and down to earth. Unlike others, they are not narcissist. You must have also seen those narcissists who are always so full of themselves and obsessed with their own personality, making the life of their close persons a living hell. Shy guys are a complete opposite of them, and which girl would not like a humble guy?
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- They have unique talents
Guys who are introverts, or they are shy, because they enjoy their own company, they certainly develop unique traits and interests. As a result, you will find them equipped with certain talents that most people do not have. It is a common observance, that shy guys are good at technology, making money by selling their unique services. They are more into arts, painting and writing. So girls, next time you ignore a shy guy, be aware, he might be the next best art seller of the century.
- Great at giving advice when asked
Shy guys speak little, as a result they become the spectators of every situation. Next time you are sitting in a room full of people, think about the fact that one or more shy guys are just silently sitting, observing everything. This thing makes them experts on human nature because they are always taking notes. That’s why you can always count on them for the best possible advice.
- They are loyal and sincere
Being honest, we do not associate loyalty with shy guys only. There is a great chance that you will find a not-so-shy guy who is also very loyal. But, when it comes to shy guys, they will always be there for you, whether you need to share your emotions or need any kind of help. And they will not start telling everyone how they helped you, your secrets and embarrassing stories are safe with them.
- They make great friends
Combine all the qualities that we listed above and there you have a great friend who listens to you, gives the best possible advice, is loyal and sincere, has a humble personality, has unique talents, and he is the one you can always trust with your secrets.
Speaking of a friend, we also have some shy friends, and although they were shy to speak, they told us that in their experience, girls always like shy guys.
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- Shy guys are cute
You will agree with us on this one. Not making an eye contact while talking, smiling face, being not so experienced in having a conversation makes them look cute and sometimes their sudden expressions are just adorable. They will try to write an old-fashioned love letter to you instead of asking you to go out with them. Or they will design a puzzle, they after solving will say, “will you marry me”? Because they are shy, not comfortable in talking, they will make these cute efforts to express their love.
- They make great husbands
If a shy guy likes you, he will make an effort to tell you. Although he will have to come out of his shell to share his feelings, but both of you will find your relation worth all the efforts. You will always feel safe and happy in his company. You will feel that in the crowd, his eyes will only search for you. He will try to be close to you. You will be the girl of his dreams, no matter how many beautiful girls are around him. And once he open up and feels comfortable around you, he will have SO MUCH to talk about. You will even be amazed, if that is the same shy guy you knew before. It is like having two personalities in one body.
If you are the shy guy reading this article, enjoy your life like you want it to be. You will find friends, you will find love, you will find a job that you like without trying to be a macho man. If you are a girl, interested in a shy guy, speak your heart to him, maybe he thinks the same about you and is too shy to speak. Hope you enjoyed the article.