We appreciate you stopping by our blog, trying to find an answer to the question, “how to know if she loves me but is scared to ask”? Do not worry, we have got you covered.
Falling in love is a wonderful thing one can experience. But sometimes, you face different levels of difficulties.
Why a girl will not share her feelings?
The thing is, girls by nature are shy, they like to remain reserved. Another reason can be, that maybe in the past, she fell in love with someone who broke her heart, and she is afraid it might happen again.
We have observed and gathered some points to help you understand if she loves you but is afraid to start a relationship.
Signs She Loves You but is Scared of Her Feelings
- She is shy in front of others, but comfortable around you.
This is a sign that you will start to notice right away. If a girl is shy and doesn’t talk much to others normally, but when she is in your company, she seems like a completely different person. She talks a lot; she shares even silly details about how her day went. It could be a sign that she is in love with you, as she just feels comfortable around you.
- Observe the body language
Every sentiment of a person can be observed through his/her body language. If a person is trying to impress you, he/ she will shake your hand firmly. The same is the case with girls. If a girl is in love with you and is scared to show it, her body language will. Having eye contact with you, sort of blushing and looking away, is a classic sign that shows a person is in love with you. If she leans in while talking to you, her arms are not folded or crossed, she seems comfortable around you, then congratulations, she is interested in you.
- Several compliments are coming from her.
You might wonder, how is this a sign because your friends also compliment you, and we agree anyone can. But with a girl, observe if she notices small things about your personality and makes compliments on them. It means she has been thinking about you; she is interested in you and is trying to make you feel special by letting you know that everything about you matters to her.
- Jealousy is a vital sign
If a girl truly loves you, she will get jealous even if you talk to other girls. She will show the signs and will try to grab your attention away from others. She will even get jealous if someone else is getting your attention more than her.
- Shares her personal life’s problems and happiness with you
You cannot deny the fact that we only shared personal things with those who you trust or love. If a girl loves you, she will do what we call an extra-sharing. She will text or call you to let you know how her day went. She will share her worst problems or the most embarrassing moments with you. Not only that, she will also share her happy moments and achievements with you. It is a way of getting familiar with one another, and surely a sign too.
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- She finds your lame jokes funny
Did it ever happen to you? That you cracked a joke, and no one laughed? Well, not now. Now you have this girl around you, who is in love with you. No matter if no one laughs, she will find even your lamest jokes funny. But keep in mind, she is only doing this to make you feel better and make you think she is enjoying your comedy. If you find this kind of girl, she is a keeper.
- She defends you
If she is in love with you, she, my friend, will fight for you. Fighting for you does not mean that she will jump into a ring to fight. It means she will verbally support you, she will not listen a word against you. She will protect you from others and even if she understands you are wrong. She will, still, somehow try to be on your side and will help you in making things right. These are pure feelings and are very hard to find these days. If you have a girl like her, wrap her up in some bubble wrap and keep her safe, trust us, you do not want to lose her.
- She tries to test you
Maybe she told you, she is going abroad for higher studies or is shifting to another city, and you cannot see her soon. These are random tests that girls drop on boys to check their reaction. A girl is always curious to know, how you will act in her absence, will the thought of her going far away make you sad? So guys, brace yourselves and have fun, enjoy!!
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- She likes what you like
You will notice that she asks about your favourite music, your favourite genre in movies and will pretend she has the same taste. She will watch your favourite film or serials with you. If you are into sports, she will try to accompany you in watching big sports events and matches. Even if she knows nothing about sports, she will ask questions to understand.
These signs actually mean she enjoys your company, she feels safe and comfortable around you and is scared to lose you, that can also be the reason she is afraid to ask or tell you how deeply in love she is with you. As we stated before that girls are naturally shy, they do not express their emotions out loud. So, if you are getting signals like we discussed, just go and talk to her. Good luck!!